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Reliable Friendship


In the course of living life, we meet many friends but they don´t stay forever in our hearts besides few of them. Finding a true friend in the foreign country is almost impossible. In my experience of 4 years in the foreign country, I have found very few friends with whom I count on. One of them is Suraj Pandey from Butwal.

We met last year when we went for the work together. We had spent around three months together there being like the brothers. I still remember so many things which we had done there. We also worked in the same company in another place as well for a short time. Then, he left the company to grab another opportunity while I stayed in the same company but we stayed connected.  And the friendship of ours is fruitful for me because of him I have got an opportunity. For this, I am so thankful to him.

If we see the present situation of our society, people are so racist taking casts. If he also thinks so he never helps me because I am Rai which is in the indigenous group and he is Pande which is in Brahmans group. I knew him before that he didn´t like people were divided over castes. We are not even from the same place as well. He is not only the person from Brahman community who helps me out but also there was a manager of Nabil Bank named Keshab Bhattarai who also helped me a lot for my banking documents before for my abroad study.


Even though I requested for many so-called friends, they only gave me beautiful assurances but they did nothing for me. It is said that you only know your friend when you are in trouble. I think it´s so true like the friend in need is a friend indeed. So, I think it´s worthless to talk about casts. Bottom line, all Rais are not good and all Brahmans are not bad. Thank You Suraj bro!

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