"Today,
we are launching a campaign called HeForShe. I am reaching out to you before we
need your help. We want to end gender inequality and to do this, we need
everyone involved. This is the first campaign of its kind at the UN. We want to
try to galvanize as many men and boys as possible to be advocates for change
and we don't just want to talk about it. We want to try and make sure that it's
tangible."
"I
was appointed as Goodwill Ambassador for U.N. Women six months ago and the more
I've spoken about feminism, the more I have realized that fighting for women's
rights has too often become synonymous with man-hating. If there is one thing I
know for certain, it is that this has to stop."
"for
the record, feminism, by definition, is the belief that men and women should
have equal rights and opportunities. It is the theory of the political,
economic and social equality of the sexes. I started questioning gender-based
assumptions a long time ago."
"When
I was 8, I was confused about being called 'bossy' because I wanted to direct
the plays that we would put on for our parents. But the boys were not. When at
14, I started to be sexualized by certain elements of the media, when at 15, my
girlfriends started dropping out of their beloved sports teams, because they
didn't want to appear 'muscle-y,' when at 18, my males friends were unable to
express their feelings, I decided that I was a feminist. And this seems uncomplicated
to me. But my recent research has shown me that feminism has become an
unpopular word."
"Women
are choosing not to identify as feminists. Apparently, I am among the ranks of
women whose expressions are seen as too strong, 'too aggressive,' isolating and
anti-men, unattractive, even. Why has the word become such an uncomfortable
one?"
"I
am from Britain and I think it is right that I am paid the same as my male
counterparts. I think it is right that I should be able to make decisions about
my own body, I think [applause break] ... I think it is right that
women be involved on my behalf in the policies and the decisions that affect my
life. I think it is right that socially, I am afforded the same respect as
men."
"But
sadly, I can say that there is no one country in the world where all women can
expect to receive these rights. No country in the world can yet say that they
have achieved gender equality. These rights, I consider to be human rights but
I am one of the lucky ones, my life is a sheer privilege because my parents
didn't love me less because I was born a daughter. My school did not limit me
because I was a girl. My mentors didn't assume that I would go less far because
I might give birth to a child one day. These influencers are the gender
equality ambassadors that made me who I am today."
"They
may not know it, but they are the inadvertent feminists who are changing the
world today. We need more of those and if you still hate the word, it is not
the word that is important. It's the idea and the ambition behind it. Because
not all women have received the same rights that I have. In fact,
statistically, very few have been."
"In
1997, Hillary Clinton made a famous speech in Beijing about women's rights.
Sadly, many of the things that she wanted to change are still true today. But
what stood out for me the most was that less than 30 percent of the audience
were male. How can we affect change in the world when only half of it is
invited or feel welcome to participate in the conversation?"
"Men,
I would like to take this opportunity to extend your formal
invitation." [Applause break] "Gender equality is your
issue too. Because to date, I've seen my father's role as a parent being valued
les by society despite my needing his presence, as a child, as much as my
mother's. I've seen young men suffering from mental illness, unable to ask for
help, for fear it would make them less of a men—or less of a man. In fact, in
the U.K., suicide is the biggest killer of men, between 20 to 49, eclipsing
road accidents, cancer and coronary heart disease. I've seen men made fragile
and insecure by a distorted sense of what constitutes male success. Men
don't have the benefits of equality, either."
"We
don't want to talk about men being imprisoned by gender stereotypes but I can
see that they are. When they are free, things will change for women as a
natural consequence. If men don't have to be aggressive, women won't be
compelled to be submissive. If men don't need to control, women won't have to
be controlled."
"It
is time that we all see gender as a spectrum instead of two sets of opposing
ideals. We should stop defining each other by what we are not and start
defining ourselves by who we are. We can all be freer and this is what HeForShe
is about. It's about freedom. I want men to take up this mantle so their
daughters, sisters and mothers can be free from prejudice but also so their
sons have permission to be vulnerable and human, too and in doing so, be a more
true and complete version of themselves."
"You
might think, 'Who is this Harry Potter girl? What is she doing at the
U.N.?' And it's a really good question—I've been asking myself at the same
thing. All I know is that I care about this problem and I want to make it
better. And having seen what I've seen and given the chance, I feel my
responsibility to say something. Statesman Edmund Burke said all that is needed
for the forces of evil to triumph is for good men and women to do nothing."
"In
my nervousness for this speech and my moments of doubt, I've told myself
firmly, 'If not me, who? If not now, when?' If you have similar doubts when
opportunities are presented to you, I hope that those words will be helpful
because the reality is, if we do nothing, it will take 75 years or for me, to
be nearly 100, before women can expect to be paid the same as men for the same
work—15.5 million girls will be married in the next 16 years as children and at
current rates, it won't be until 2086 before all rural African girls can have a
secondary education."
"If you believe in equality, you might be one
of those inadvertent feminists that I spoke of earlier and for this, I applaud
you. We are struggling for a uniting word but the good news is that we have a uniting
movement. It is called HeForShe. I am inviting you to step forward to be seen
and to ask yourself, 'If not me, who? If not now, when?' Thank you very, very
much."
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